Security is the possible physical or psychological risk or risk premonition, and individual in response to the work of powerful / powerlessness, main show is determined and controlled.
Detailed explanation
First of all, security is a feeling, a kind of psychology; from one side of the gives the other party feeling; is a people can be assured, can be comfortable. Can rely on, can believe in areas such as performance of the speech and deportment.
Second, whether can have a sense of security, from many factors, there are subjective and objective. Here we mainly talk about the subjective aspect. Let them have a sense of security, the first thing to do is to let them believe that he. Let them believe this is not an easy thing, you must be in speech and deportment aspects can be reflected, for example: you should do what you say, say to get to do, to do so don't promise; often give TA say, talk about your ideas, often greeting and care about TA life; no matter how busy don't ignore TA, often give TA some surprises; stop on its TA (heterosexual ) too good, speech and action are the same; willing to TA get rid of your bad habits...
Third, physical security. If you want to really make TA assured, you must also be specific substances on the sense of security, that is to say you must let TA feel, life is required, do not worry, not to worry about money, this is a very important factor.
Home can be said to be the most secure place.
The woman need a sense of security, men also need a sense of security.
Security is mainly embodied in two aspects:
1 spirit level:
When a man in affection respect from the other side of the body do not get enough of a sense of security, Ta will pursue the physical aspects of the sense of security, to resist mental / emotional security flaw.
The 2 material level:
When a man is the pursuit of material enjoyment of the time, Hong Kong safety surface then the Ta material requirements are not fully met, a sense of security in Ta relative decline, then through in the spirit of the pursuit of new replacement, to meet the Ta on the physical aspects of insecure.
Emotional and physical sense of security is very difficult to make a person at the same time, through marriage in such a way as to enhance the sense of safety, is the most happy way.
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